It’s a problem of mine. I do the things that I want to do instead of the ones I need. What I really need to do is stop reprimanding myself and start changing.
You reprimand yourself, instead of changing.
Because changing is hard. Duh. But harder for some than for others.
Did you know there are slow-changers, fast-changers, and no-changers? Some people will never change. Some people change slowly. And some people change quickly. I don’t know a lot of fast-changers. Perhaps there are fewer of them or perhaps this is perception. Perhaps I feel like I don’t know many fast-changers because fast-changers are hard to hold onto. They grow out of and move on from phases/relationships quickly.